
Tom Valenti
Chef, Restaurateur, and Author
- Lifespan
- March 23, 1959 – April 1, 2026Mar 23, 1959 – Apr 1, 2026
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- Morristown, New Jersey, USAMorristown, NJ

Chef, Restaurateur, and Author
Tom Valenti, the pioneering chef who transformed the Upper West Side dining scene and earned renown as the 'king of the braise,' passed away on April 1, 2026, at the age of 67.
Born in Ithaca, New York, to Louis and Aurora Valenti, he was raised by his mother and Italian immigrant maternal grandparents. He learned the craft of traditional Italian cooking after school in the kitchen of his grandmother, Nonni. He later apprenticed under chef Etienne Merle at L'Auberge Du Cochon Rouge, a French restaurant in his hometown. Seeking to expand his technique, he spent 15 months in Paris working as a pastry chef and chef tournant for the legendary French chef Guy Savoy.
Returning to the United States, he served as the first sous chef at the famed Gotham Bar and Grill in New York City under Alfred Portale. He achieved breakout success as the Executive Chef at Alison on Dominick, which Esquire named 'Best New Restaurant' in 1989. Food and Wine magazine named him one of the 'Ten Best New Chefs' in the country. He subsequently assumed the lead position at the Upper East Side bistro Butterfield 81, receiving immediate critical acclaim.
He opened his signature restaurant, Ouest, on the Upper West Side, bringing haute cuisine to the area. Critics frequently cited the establishment as the catalyst that transformed the neighborhood into a major dining destination. Food critic Ruth Reichl validated his culinary genius in The New York Times, writing, "Tom Valenti is a clairvoyant in the kitchen... offering exactly what I wanted to eat." Following the September 11 attacks, he co-founded the Windows of Hope Family Relief Fund to benefit the families of food service workers killed in the tragedy. Through the Windows of Hope 'Dine Out' initiative, he helped raise over $23 million for the families of the victims.
He continued his neighborhood influence by opening 'Cesca on Broadway and 75th Street, an Italian restaurant named as a tribute to his grandmother. He also opened West Branch, a 170-seat venue on 77th and Broadway, and Oxbow Tavern on Columbus Avenue at 71st Street. He served as the Executive Chef of the legendary Le Cirque restaurant in Midtown Manhattan and later at Jockey Hollow Bar and Kitchen in Morristown, New Jersey. Diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes, he shifted his culinary focus toward healthy yet flavorful recipes. He published 'Welcome to My Kitchen: A New York Chef Shares His Robust Recipes and Secret Techniques' and 'You Don't Have to be Diabetic to Love This Cookbook,' which was dedicated to sophisticated recipes for diabetic diets.
He lived in the historic Grinnell building in Manhattan with his wife, Abigail Wolcott, before moving to Northern New Jersey. An avid fly-fisherman, he practiced catch-and-release angling on the Beaverkill River in Upstate New York. He found private peace in this pursuit, telling New York Magazine, "I quickly go to zero when I get into a stream with the water rushing around my legs."
He left a profound void in the New York and New Jersey culinary communities. He was remembered as a mentor and teacher who helped shape the careers of countless young chefs in the professional cooking world. His signature slow-cooked meats and braised lamb shanks became a symbol of New York resilience and comfort. He was the soul of the neighborhood, a man whose warmth and culinary mastery anchored the Upper West Side and supported the city in its darkest hour.
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Valenti once said he couldn’t pass a tin of anchovies without an [goût] episode. The man could cook. Robert Chase
I am shocked to hear this terrible news. I worked as manager at Alison on Dominick Street for 3.5 years (if I recall all tax retturns correctly). This was in late 1980s - early 1990s. Tom was the one who drove me to St. Vincent's Hospital and sat with me as my leg was bandaged and a cast put on, for I had broken it while rollerblading to work. Tom then drove me home where I stayed in bed for 6 weeks. Alison and Tom ran food up to my Greewich Village apartment wherein I lived with my young daughter. The waitresses came to visit (the best staff ever). I can still see Alison and Tom in their tiny offices. Working in a restaurant is a true labor of love. We have the best stories. I had no idea of Tom's largesse and entrepreneurial spirit. I too volunteered after "911", but nothing to do with food. All that time, Tom was organizing and raising millions of dollars! Does a human being get any better? The time to help was infectious. I am trying to locate Tom's funeral, viewing, wake. My phone number is: 929-513-0936. My name is Erin Patrice Rooney. I can try to get to Marcus Samuelson at Red Rooster, as I now live in Harlem. Perhaps he will know something or know somebody who does. Very sad. Tom is one of the greats.
Valenti once said he couldn’t pass a tin of anchovies without an [goût] episode. The man could cook. Robert Chase
I am shocked to hear this terrible news. I worked as manager at Alison on Dominick Street for 3.5 years (if I recall all tax retturns correctly). This was in late 1980s - early 1990s. Tom was the one who drove me to St. Vincent's Hospital and sat with me as my leg was bandaged and a cast put on, for I had broken it while rollerblading to work. Tom then drove me home where I stayed in bed for 6 weeks. Alison and Tom ran food up to my Greewich Village apartment wherein I lived with my young daughter. The waitresses came to visit (the best staff ever). I can still see Alison and Tom in their tiny offices. Working in a restaurant is a true labor of love. We have the best stories. I had no idea of Tom's largesse and entrepreneurial spirit. I too volunteered after "911", but nothing to do with food. All that time, Tom was organizing and raising millions of dollars! Does a human being get any better? The time to help was infectious. I am trying to locate Tom's funeral, viewing, wake. My phone number is: 929-513-0936. My name is Erin Patrice Rooney. I can try to get to Marcus Samuelson at Red Rooster, as I now live in Harlem. Perhaps he will know something or know somebody who does. Very sad. Tom is one of the greats.