Paul Cashour Obituary (1943-2026) · Bel Air, Maryland, United States...

A Life Well Lived

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Paul Cashour on Easter Sunday, April 5, 2026 surrounded by his loving family. Paul was born on August 26, 1943 near San Francisco, CA to Paul and Mary (Nee Cadden) Cashour. Along with his loving wife Mary of 58 years, Paul was a devout member of St. Margaret Catholic Church in Bel Air, MD.

Paul was a genuinely kind, gentle, and faithful man whose life was guided by his deep love of God and his unwavering devotion to his family. He was a loving husband, father, and grandfather, and nothing brought him more joy than time spent with his family.

Paul graduated from Mount St. Joseph high school in Catonsville, Maryland in 1961, and from Loyola University Maryland in 1965. He continued his education with graduate studies at both Loyola University and Johns Hopkins University.

He began his career as a history teacher at The John Carroll School, where he spent six years in education as well as coaching basketball. He later transitioned into the savings and loan industry, where he built a long and successful career, ultimately retiring as Executive Vice President of Rosedale Federal.

Following his retirement, Paul fulfilled a lifelong dream by moving to Paris, France with his wife, Mary, where they spent a year of culture, travel, and discovery. They shared many wonderful adventures exploring Europe and the Middle East, creating memories that would last a lifetime.

Paul much preferred life’s simple pleasures—traveling, playing sports, and gathering with family and friends. He brought his integrity to everything he did, especially when it came to a good game. Known for his competitive spirit among his grandkids, Paul played fair, never cut corners, and while he never cheated, he certainly didn't let anyone win easily. His friendly banter and sense of humor made every moment with him easy and pleasant.

He will also be fondly remembered for the traditions he created—board games and chocolate milkshakes with family at the beach, Orioles games, cookouts and golf outings with friends, and the way he savored life’s meaningful moments, finding the fun in even the most ordinary days.

Survived by: wife Mary; daughters Jennifer, Megan and Karen; grandchildren Emily, Juliet, Gabriel, Liam, Declan, Jude, Annabel, Daisy, Paige and Teagan, and he is also greatly missed by his siblings and in-laws, and several loving nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Paul’s legacy is one of love, faith, and steadfast presence—a life well lived and deeply felt by all who knew him.

A Memorial Mass will be held on Friday, May 1 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Margaret Church in Bel Air, MD. Following the Mass, there will be a luncheon at Rockfield Manor: 501 Churchville Rd., Bel Air, MD 21014. All are warmly welcome to join us.

The family is grateful for the outpouring of love, support, and prayers during this time.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Tunnel to Towers Foundation (https://t2t.org) or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital (www.stjude.org).

Those who wish to honor Paul's memory are invited to .

Memorial created on April 6, 2026. Last updated on June 29, 2026.

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Lisa Wooden·Apr 14

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Wooden Family

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Iona Rudisill·Apr 13

Abundant Blessings of peace and comfort to family and friends.

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Nate Nocket·Apr 13

Sending thoughts and prayers during this time. -Mr. Nocket

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Cecilia Cashour·Apr 10

As the eldest child in our "Nine Is MORE THAN Enough" family, my big brother Paul Joseph definitely set the bar high for the other eight of us to try to follow in his footsteps! From the moment that our parents, Army Staff Sgt. Paul Everett and Mary Margaret (Cadden) Cashour, could boast of his having won the Cutest Baby contest at Camp Stoneman in Pittsburgh, CA, in 1943, the rest of us might as well have thrown in the towel when it came to measuring up! (And, as the youngest in birth order, I say that with the greatest love and admiration). I honestly have no recollection of what it must have like with all 11 of us growing up in a modest "cottage" home in Halethorpe, MD, "on the wrong side of the tracks," because my older siblings had "left the nest," before my earliest memories were forming. However, I can say that Paul became a very accomplished and worldly person, who never lost his sense of family, and went on to create and cherish a beautiful, loving family of his own with his wife Mary. I came to know Paul better in adulthood, and learned a lot from his character, his steadfastness, and his generosity with his family, friends, and community. As an expert in house loans, Paul "walked me through the process" of purchasing my first home, and other homes to follow - it was a nice fringe benefit of having a trusted "friend" as Rosedale Federal! Being the "baby" of the family, I was the "designated driver" for bringing our mom to countless celebrations at the homes of Paul and Mary, and making sure that she got home safely after partaking of far too many of Paul's marvelous Brandy Alexanders, Spiked Eggnogs, or Whiskey Sours -- I can never thank Paul enough for THAT 'honor!" Paul even "stood in" for our late father and "gave me away" at my wedding in 1992. As a judicious and fair arbitrator, he kept us on track for the arduous clearing and sale of the Cashour homestead after our Mom's passing in 1997. That summer, he joined in the "moving crew" for my own family's change of address to a single family home in Severn. Farther "down the road," Paul and Mary led the "painting and clean-up crew" as I was going through a divorce and putting the marital home up for sale in 2014. All this is to say that I could always count on my Big Brother Paul to be there for me in good times and bad, because that is kind of guy he was, and so he will always be remembered! Rest in peace, Paul, until we meet again! Love and comfort to all those who had the pleasure to know you! Cel (Cecilia Margaret Cashour, "Baby Seal")

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Renee Weber ·Apr 7

Paul was a great man. He hired me 40 years ago at Rosedale Federal. Family was very important to him. He will be missed.

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Melissa King·Apr 7

Paul’s legacy is a true testament to a life well lived, defined by his kindness and the lasting impact he made on everyone around him. May the many wonderful memories you share provide comfort and strength during this difficult time.

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Christie (Manley) Brubaker ·Apr 7

I have such fond memories of playing at the house on Theodore Ave. Mr. Paul reading the Little House series. Seeing him jogging down Walther Ave before jogging was the in thing to do. My thoughts are with all of you.

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Lisa WoodenApr 14

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Wooden Family

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Iona RudisillApr 13

Abundant Blessings of peace and comfort to family and friends.

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Nate NocketApr 13

Sending thoughts and prayers during this time. -Mr. Nocket

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Cecilia CashourApr 10

As the eldest child in our "Nine Is MORE THAN Enough" family, my big brother Paul Joseph definitely set the bar high for the other eight of us to try to follow in his footsteps! From the moment that our parents, Army Staff Sgt. Paul Everett and Mary Margaret (Cadden) Cashour, could boast of his having won the Cutest Baby contest at Camp Stoneman in Pittsburgh, CA, in 1943, the rest of us might as well have thrown in the towel when it came to measuring up! (And, as the youngest in birth order, I say that with the greatest love and admiration). I honestly have no recollection of what it must have like with all 11 of us growing up in a modest "cottage" home in Halethorpe, MD, "on the wrong side of the tracks," because my older siblings had "left the nest," before my earliest memories were forming. However, I can say that Paul became a very accomplished and worldly person, who never lost his sense of family, and went on to create and cherish a beautiful, loving family of his own with his wife Mary. I came to know Paul better in adulthood, and learned a lot from his character, his steadfastness, and his generosity with his family, friends, and community. As an expert in house loans, Paul "walked me through the process" of purchasing my first home, and other homes to follow - it was a nice fringe benefit of having a trusted "friend" as Rosedale Federal! Being the "baby" of the family, I was the "designated driver" for bringing our mom to countless celebrations at the homes of Paul and Mary, and making sure that she got home safely after partaking of far too many of Paul's marvelous Brandy Alexanders, Spiked Eggnogs, or Whiskey Sours -- I can never thank Paul enough for THAT 'honor!" Paul even "stood in" for our late father and "gave me away" at my wedding in 1992. As a judicious and fair arbitrator, he kept us on track for the arduous clearing and sale of the Cashour homestead after our Mom's passing in 1997. That summer, he joined in the "moving crew" for my own family's change of address to a single family home in Severn. Farther "down the road," Paul and Mary led the "painting and clean-up crew" as I was going through a divorce and putting the marital home up for sale in 2014. All this is to say that I could always count on my Big Brother Paul to be there for me in good times and bad, because that is kind of guy he was, and so he will always be remembered! Rest in peace, Paul, until we meet again! Love and comfort to all those who had the pleasure to know you! Cel (Cecilia Margaret Cashour, "Baby Seal")

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Renee Weber Apr 7

Paul was a great man. He hired me 40 years ago at Rosedale Federal. Family was very important to him. He will be missed.

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Melissa KingApr 7

Paul’s legacy is a true testament to a life well lived, defined by his kindness and the lasting impact he made on everyone around him. May the many wonderful memories you share provide comfort and strength during this difficult time.

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Christie (Manley) Brubaker Apr 7

I have such fond memories of playing at the house on Theodore Ave. Mr. Paul reading the Little House series. Seeing him jogging down Walther Ave before jogging was the in thing to do. My thoughts are with all of you.

Paul Joseph Cashour

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