Phyllis Beverly Auhll
In Loving Memory of Phyllis Beverly Auhll December 21, 1942 – May 30th, 2026
With profound love and gratitude for a life beautifully lived, we celebrate the life of Phyllis Beverly Auhll, devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, servant of God, and friend to countless people whose lives were touched by her warmth and faith.
Phyllis was born on December 21, 1942, in Stamford, Connecticut, to the late Lina and Willie Smith. Raised in a loving family and grounded in faith from an early age, she became a lifelong member of Wilson Memorial Church of God in Christ in Stamford, where she faithfully served for many years. Throughout her life, she led and volunteered in numerous ministries, dedicating her time and talents to advancing God's work and caring for others.
A proud graduate of Stamford High School, Phyllis spent the first 57 years of her life in the city she loved. In 1967, she married the late Daniel Thompson, and together they began building a family. From that union came her beloved children, Dionne Thompson and Craig Thompson, who remained among her greatest joys and proudest accomplishments.
Phyllis also enjoyed a rewarding and exciting professional career as an administrative professional with Circon Corporation in Stamford, Connecticut. It was there that she met Robert Auhll, a connection that would blossom into a deep and enduring love. On May 30, 2000, Phyllis and Robert were married, beginning a beautiful partnership rooted in faith, friendship, and shared purpose.
Following their marriage, Phyllis joined Robert in Tonganoxie, Kansas, where she continued doing what came naturally to her, creating community wherever she went. She became a chaplain, deepened her love of the outdoors, and alongside her husband faithfully led a prison ministry, helping share the Gospel and lead countless individuals to Christ.
In 2007, Phyllis and Robert relocated to California and quickly fell in love with the beauty of the West Coast. She was captivated by the mountains, the ocean, scenery, and the year-round opportunities to enjoy God's creation. An avid hiker and walker, Phyllis often walked 10 to 12 miles a day, embracing a lifestyle centered on health, wellness, and gratitude. Her passion for healthy living led her to become involved with Weight Watchers, where she encouraged and coached others toward healthier habits and greater confidence.
A dedicated volunteer, Phyllis generously gave her time to her church, Shoreline Church, Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula (CHOMP), and numerous community organizations. Service was never simply something she did, it was who she was.
Of all the roles Phyllis held throughout her life, none was more important to her than being a follower of Jesus Christ. Her faith was unwavering. She loved God deeply, trusted Him completely, and never missed an opportunity to share His goodness with others. Whether speaking with a lifelong friend or someone she had just met, Phyllis delighted in telling others about God's love and faithfulness.
Phyllis also lived life boldly and on her own terms. She often said she had no desire to be "normal." If everyone else was going left, Phyllis was likely headed right. She was never afraid to take a risk, embrace a new adventure, or follow a path less traveled. Her independent spirit, courage, and willingness to be different inspired those around her to live authentically and fearlessly.
That adventurous spirit was evident in her passion for health and fitness. An avid walker and runner, Phyllis participated in countless races and marathons throughout her life, often finishing at the top of her age group. Whether hiking mountain trails, walking miles through her community, or crossing another finish line, she approached every challenge with determination, discipline, and joy.
Phyllis believed deeply in the potential of others, especially young women. She was a mentor, encourager, and trusted confidante to many. Through her words and example, she reminded those she encountered that it was more than acceptable to be yourself, it was something to be celebrated. She encouraged others to embrace their uniqueness, trust God's plan for their lives, and never be afraid to stand apart from the crowd.
Phyllis possessed a rare and beautiful gift: she genuinely loved people. Her radiant smile could light up a room, and her kindness made everyone feel seen, valued, and welcome. Age, background, race, or circumstance never mattered to her. To Phyllis, there were no strangers—only future friends and family. Her ability to connect with people was extraordinary, and her impact will continue to be felt by generations of those blessed to know her.
Phyllis leaves to cherish her memory her beloved husband of twenty-six years, Robert Auhll; her daughter, Dionne Thompson (Clinton Stephens) of Trumbull, Connecticut; her son, Craig Thompson of Stamford, Connecticut; her cherished grandchildren, Morgan Watts (Jason) of West Haven, Connecticut, Matthew Spencer of Bridgeport, Connecticut, and Sumer Tyson of Meriden, Connecticut; and her adored great-grandchildren, Jasmine Watts, Sage Spencer and Soul Spencer. She also leaves behind a host of extended family members, dear friends, church families, and countless individuals whose lives were forever enriched by her love, encouragement, and faith.
Though our hearts grieve her absence, we rejoice in the assurance that she is now in the presence of her Savior, whom she faithfully served throughout her life. Her legacy of faith, compassion, service, and unconditional love will continue to inspire all who knew her.
Phyllis lived fully, loved deeply, served faithfully, and never stopped believing in the goodness of God. Her footprints can be found on mountain trails, in church pews, hospital hallways, prison ministries, family gatherings, and in the hearts of all those fortunate enough to have known her.
"Well done, good and faithful servant." — Matthew 25:23
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